Want to know how to get an ex boyfriend back? Well, you need a smart overall plan and a properly informed perspective on the male psyche. Oh, these four tips won’t hurt, either! Combine them with the right big picture approach and he’ll be back in your arms in record time.
Tip: Forget Everything You Know
You should immediately disregard all of those ideas you have about how to get him back in your life. Seriously, toss them in the trash. Why? They won’t work. That’s because they’re coming from you, a rational woman using her experience and common sense. You’re not dealing with yourself here. You’re dealing with your ex boyfriend. As a man, he sees the world differently than you. What makes sense to you and your friends may not even register with him.
Tip: Time For Psych 101
No, you don’t really need to take a psychology class. You do, however, need to bone up on your understanding of the male psyche. You need to figure out where those male psychological hot buttons are and how to press them. You don’t need to think like a guy (big relief, huh?) but you do need to understand the way he thinks. Don’t worry, if you have some good materials, it isn’t hard to learn.
Tip: Tricks Of The Trade
There are a ton of little situations that are going to pop up that you could leverage to your advantage–but only if you have a few tricks in your handbag. You need to have a few proven, planned and battle-tested mini-tricks that you can use to transform those small windows of opportunity into full-fledged chances to get him back.
Tip: Make The Effort
He isn’t coming back just because you want him to. You need to take action. I know that’s completely obvious, but it’s also the one thing most women just don’t do. They sit around worrying about him and whether he’ll return. They complain about life. They hope and they pray. They don’t, however, experience real results. If you want to know how to get an ex boyfriend back, you must understand that it starts with action.